A same-sex couple was outraged in Wales on Thursday when a restaurant labeled them “lesbians” on their receipt.

Belinda Mulcahy and Jo James were celebrating Belinda’s birthday at a restaurant in Northern Wales. The couple was sitting alone together and were outraged, when presented with a bill at the end of their meal, to find their server had labeled them “lesbians,” reported PinkNews.

Jo quickly took off her tool belt, tucked in her plaid shirt, and complained to management (okay that didn’t happen but it’s nice to believe.)

“Even though it’s true, they were outraged by it. Why on earth would they put on a receipt? I can’t imagine they’d write Jews or Blacks or even Disabled,” a friend of the couple said to Pink News.

“Belinda looked at me and she said, ‘Are you alright?’ I showed her and she was speechless,” James said to Diva Magazine. “We hadn’t done anything overt. We hadn’t been kissing at the bar or holding hands. We could have been friends. We could have been relations.”

“We could have been a whole host of things. So the fact he decided to identify us as lesbians was a bit horrifying,” she continued. “We were shocked at how stupid this man had been. I don’t know what upon earth possessed the staff member a) to write it and b) to hand me the receipt with it on.”

According to the restaurant, the staff member was verbally reprimanded and the ladies were offered complimentary drinks but they claim it’s not enough.

The restaurant clearly had very little experience handling lesbian outrage, the only appropriate retribution is either a gift card to Home Depot or tickets to some unfunny feminist comedienne like Ellen DeGeneres.

Image via Creative Commons/Didriks

  • hslds

    Hey, it’s Wales – be glad they didn’t call them ‘sheep shaggers…’

    • disqus_Aa7kWsb7Fp

      The only gays in the village 🙂 ?

  • tott

    Sooooo them, where they lesbians?

    • Yes. According to the story the women say it’s true. But they do make a good point in that putting “black guy” or “Jew” or “Fat lady” would also be seen negatively. I get why the server did it. That helps them to remember on a busy day where it goes, but most places just have table numbers for that. So, yes they are, but I still think it’s not called for.

      • Luca Barbato

        “Couple” isn’t that uncommon on receipts, I think

        • Neither is “table 12”. Numbers are a much better system.

          • Paul

            Unless you’re on table 69 or 14 or 88 or 13.

            My wife and I shared a 69 in the Chinese restaurant we went to yesterday. Special fried rice noodles.

          • Luca Barbato

            “12 is the number of the beast in my religion 1!one!ein!”

          • GTKRWN

            Staff-side notes aren’t supposed to be printed on the public tab, either. I feel sorry for them for having a POS system written by a moron.

            What’s wrong with being called “black guy?” If you’ve got a top with 12 people and want to keep the tickets straight what is wrong with descriptors? It isn’t just about keeping track of the table, it’s keeping track of the individuals at that table. What if you’re running a busy shift where two servers are both helping out, you both have to know who ordered what.

            Now sure you’d have a reason to be angry if the tab said “nigger that isn’t going to tip anyway” but “black guy?” Especially if he’s the token black friend in a table of white college kids? He’s black. So what. It would be more racist to just remember that he was the one that ordered the chicken wings. And he’s sitting next to the fat girl, chad popped-collar, and the skinny guy that ordered the avocado toast.

          • What’s wrong with being called “black guy?” {sigh}

          • GTKRWN

            … says TopMonkey.

          • A keen observation.

      • tott

        What about “White guy”? Is that ok?

        • No of course not that’s rude. It’s one thing if you’re talking to a friend and you say hey look at that white guy over there. But we’re talking about a professional environment.

  • spiritof76

    Lesbians—- always looking for a reason to be outraged.

  • SweepTheLeg

    Were they lesbians or not?

    • DrakhorT

      Did you even read the article?

      “Even though it’s true, they were outraged by it.”

      • SweepTheLeg

        I missed that part, my bad. Don’t go lesbian on me.

        • HT

          I’m outraged I tell ya, just outraged!!!!

        • Al Gee Brah

          BEST REPLY TO A COMMENT EVER! (p.s. i’m gonna start using that one too) LOL

  • 0bsoleteMan

    First world problems… gotta love ’em.

  • Andrew

    Sticks and stones may break your bones but words are even more hurtful to these kind of tossers

  • Dudley Morris

    I note that there’s no picture of the offended parties, perhaps because they fit the stereotypes all too well?

  • david winkle

    awesome milo wouldn’t give a shit if they wrote on his hilarious faggot the dude is so cool

  • Lee Whittaker

    Proper response: Okay, ladies. We’ll remove the discount if it offends you so much.

  • doug patrick

    Im always confused about Lesbian vs Gay.

    why is there a LGBT thing, as Lesbians ARE gay. GBT would work.

    and T should be a M, for Mental. so GBM is the best symbol.

    or GBM

    • Douglas Cowdrick

      GBM is probably Gay, Butch, Mental. For dating sites.

    • MLMII

      I’ve always just used the term gay to cover all of them (well, except trans I suppose), but then again I personally believe that human sexuality (not gender) is far more complex then a “toggle switch” and no-one is 100% straight or 100% gay whether they’d admit it or not.

      • luckyflesh

        “and no-one is 100% straight or 100% gay whether they’d admit it or not.”

        And you know this how? Fact is, you can only speak for yourself, whether you’d admit it or not.

        • MLMII

          “I personally believe” … wasn’t enough of a disclaimer for you I take it? *rolls eyes*

          However with that said I first came across the concept from a study that measured physical reactions in both male and females while being shown pictures and that was the conclusion they came up with as well.

          • luckyflesh

            “I personally believe” … wasn’t enough of a disclaimer for you I take it?

            Apparently not. 🙂

          • MLMII

            *tongue firmly in cheek* I’ll try to remember to compose a better disclaimer in the future then. Three paragraphs and 500 words ought to be enough shouldn’t it?

          • luckyflesh

            Indeed it should, but I’m old(ish.. 48) and spend most of my time tired, sleepy, exhausted and in a mental fog. 🙂

        • David Brown

          Lucky flesh meet one 100% straight guy

          • MLMII

            *raises hand*

            Umm, I believe you meant to direct that towards little ol’ me, not lucky.

          • luckyflesh

            Nice to meet you, fellow 100% straight guy.

      • Roger Edward Harris

        Liberals are always making up new classes so they can be offended about common everyday things. Treating everybody the same is no longer an option as they are entitled to something or other. Typing Lesbian ion the receipt s not treating every body the same and the guy should be fired.

        • MLMII

          Please tell me that is sarcasm that just flew over my head and you aren’t actually serious in your belief that someone should be fired for this? … A reprimand and a slap on the wrist maybe.

      • True.Epic.Crusader

        “I’ve always just used the term gay to cover all of them (well, except trans I suppose),”

        Dude, trannies are the ULTIMATE form of gay. It’s like ultra-gay on steroids with mental illness cranked to the max. “Except” trans? No, ESPECIALLY trans.

        • MLMII

          I’d have to disagree, there is a difference between sexual preferences (and I’ve already expressed my views that everyone is too some degree bisexual although I expect every guy to kneejerk disagree) and believing that your body is “wrong” as the latter is a mental illness whether it involves gender, species, or the number of limbs you have.

          • True.Epic.Crusader

            Sure, but it’s gay in some way no matter how you slice it: imagine a boy who thinks that he’s a girl, and acts accordingly.
            If he believes he is a straight girl, he will get together with boys (thus be gay, since he is really a boy). However, if he believes to be a lesbian girl, he will get together with girls, thus, not TRULY be gay, but be gay in his own view.
            So either way there’s some weird-ass gay sh* t going on.

  • Tlu

    “We were shocked at how stupid this man had been.”

    And yet he accurately assessed that you were a couple of dikes. Funny how that works.

  • Renegade_Redneck99

    lol

  • rebjava

    They only like labels when it benefits them.

  • Bobby Barrett

    Well, it must have been somehow obvious, because the server called it, even if they didn’t kiss at the table. I guess they couldn’t have been just friends because it turns out their were in fact lesbians and the server could somehow tell.

    And well, isn’t the whole LGBT movement agenda, to flaunt sexuality in public in PRIDE parades? It seems they enjoy identifying publicly using their sexuality more than using who they are as people and persons. So why should it be offensive when they are labeled exactly what they are, lesbians?

    • David Brown

      I agree if looks like a duck quacks like a duck has yellow feet I will bet my left testicle it’s a duck.By the way straight blokes have a thing called gay radar it works

  • Don Diefenbach

    Damned if you acknowledge lesbians damned if you don’t!

  • trixie1223

    They want to be labeled as gay when it comes to bathrooms and parades, but a food receipt? Why I never!

    • Anthony Mxyzptlk

      Trixie – This particular lesbian couple didn’t say whether they even have a position on bathroom issues. In this day and age, it’s hard to remember that some gay and lesbian couple are mostly apolitical.

      • carmenta

        I doubt this couple were – they are too damn offended to be ‘apolitical’.

    • David Brown

      The tractor out the front proble gave it away

  • Leopold Rigby

    I thought a Lesbian was a person from the island of Lesbos in Greece.

    • Our Bloody Mary Hospital

      The term “Lesbian” originates from the Island of Lesbos because many centuries ago, it was a hive for women having sex with women.

      • Rusty Esq

        According to the BBC, “Born on Lesbos in the sixth century before Christ, Sappho was a poet, a muse and is claimed by some to be the world’s first feminist. She became such a gay icon that her birthplace was adopted internationally as a name”

      • MLMII

        Its my understanding that isn’t actually true about the island at large, but it was home to a famous poet that wrote a lot of erotic poems and that is how the term came to be.

    • carmenta

      Dont laugh.
      When my kid was little he thought Lesbian came from Lesbania. True story.

      We about died laughing.

  • Jack Otter

    I would get offended by the definition of what I am: “funny cute hairy mammal”.
    i really don’t see the point.

    • GTKRWN

      “I’m funny how, I mean funny, like I’m an clown? I amuse you. I make you laugh? I’m here to fuckin’ amuse you? Whattya you mean funny? Funny how? How am I funny just because I’m eating this appetizer off my belly?

      • Jack Otter

        oh danny… 🙂

  • A V_8000

    Lineman Dikes

  • Ragga

    I like how you misspelled Ellen Degenerate.

  • AaronT

    I thought they’d be proud to be labeled as such, if not then why all the Pride marching?

  • carmenta

    hang on.
    I thought we were supposed to identify people the way they want to be identified?
    We should all just stay the hell home. Let the lunatics take over the asylum.

  • Jon Skinner

    well….they are lesbians aren’t they?

  • Keith Umsted

    So, you are offended that someone correctly identified you? Isn’t that what the LGBT agenda is about? I mean, the LGBT demands recognition in movies, games, and stories, yet when someone recognizes them in public they are offended. You cant have it both ways, and you can’t say this group gets recognized and this group does not. Besides what is the big deal? You know who you are. Why do you choose to become upset over what someone thinks? You received no injury. No damage was done.

  • Dusk

    so… you’re angry that you are lesbians?

  • YelowJezamin

    As a waitress, I could never have done this. Simply because I have no gaydar. None. Don’t know, don’t care. But it was probably an easier identifier to input into the computer than “cropped hair flannel shirt/heavy makeup no bra”.

  • deejayaz

    The space for LESBIANS looks retouched.

  • John

    Stupid? The waiter hit the nail on the head. Get a sense of humor…

  • Tom Emerson

    Milo, shame on you, Ellen D. is funny. (Though her politics are sad I think?)

  • Joe Shmoe

    Ha! Had a lesbian coworker who once asked me if our boss and offic manager were telling clients if she was a lesbian. I told her no, which was true, and thought: your plaid flannel shirt, along with your 80’s jeans, red Ford pickup truck and crew cut are.

  • Karen Ryberg

    I’m confused. I thought gay/lesbian/LGBTQ like to be acknowledged as such. Seems such a big deal nowadays. Most people don’t care and would like to just live life, but there is an agressive element pushing antogonistic agendas. Makes me sad.

  • artiefischel

    In this instance, it’s reasonable that they are offended. However, complimentary drinks are in fact enough. Someone was stupid, they were reprimanded, the patrons were offered free stuff by way of apology. It’s enough.

  • flagirl336

    Wait…we are supposed to “celebrate your love” with you–and you will force us to do so in court if we feel uncomfortable with that. But that is only when convenient for you.

    If we are perceptive enough to recognize your situation and perhaps sensitive enough to note it for other staff who may be less “sensitive,” you are going to come at us in your full self-righteous glory, with your battle-axes?

    This really isn’t about rights. It’s about putting yourself above others as sole arbiters of appropriate behavior.

  • I_h8_disqus

    Lesbians, you stick out like sore thumbs. Everyone sees you coming.

  • PaulMurrayCbr

    “We hadn’t done anything overt” – and yet the server and probably the entire rest of the restaurant instantly knew. How about that?

  • Isa Guy✓ᵛᵉʳᶦᶠᶦᵉᵈ

    Entitled people need to get the frack over themselves.

    Whiny whiners.

  • Alias Darker

    it’s like having a gay man with a lisp and a limp wrist being outraged because someone correctly identifies them as gay . why ?

  • ChamomileTea

    I thought, “They’re here, they’re queer, get used to it.”
    Me: So, they’re not lesbians?
    Me: But, they are.
    Me: Why are they offended.
    Me: This is so confusing.

  • Simon Morgan

    This has the same ring to it as an anti-SSM poster at a bus stop in Melbourne that didn’t exist (it was photo-shopped by some evil creature at Channel 10).

  • Anya Williams

    They were offered free drinks because the employee did something stupid. Exactly what would they think was enough? Why is it everyone thinks that their being offended means the person should always lose their livelihood? What exactly do they think they were entitled? After all, they were lesbians. It’s not like he wrote lesbians on the bill and they were straight. Although, as a straight woman if my friends and I had that written on our bill we’d probably set the guy straight that we weren’t lesbians and laugh the whole thing off.

    People make mistakes. They have moments where they say or do something stupid or out of character.

  • Lyn Patricia

    Never happy… when no one acknowledges them they get up in arms, then when someone acknowledges them they still get up in arms… first time I ever saw a restaurant receipt that labeled a description of the customers, unless it was a reservation party or large group.

  • #OffThePlantation

    Wait, I thought them being lesbians was their whole identity, now you’re saying it’s not?

  • True.Epic.Crusader

    ““We hadn’t done anything overt. We hadn’t been kissing at the bar or holding hands. We could have been friends. We could have been relations.””

    Mhhhhh, I suspect it was obvious because of what you look like!
    Let me guess… fat, ugly, bulldog-y, short hair, tattoos. Pick any you like or any combination.

  • Thatotherdeplorable

    So they WERE lesbians anyway. And they’re offended? I thought that being gay was a badge of honor to liberals but whenever you mention it, they’re offended. Something’s definitely off with the marxist message. They’re offended when you say it, they’re offended when you don’t. Basically, they’re constantly offended.

  • John C. Marose

    The only people I know who get offended if their called gay or lesbian when they’re not are homophobic. I used to work as a bouncer and bartender in a few pretty rough clubs in Chicago. On my nights off, my girlfriend and I or myself and a few of the other guys I worked with would go to a gay club or an “alternative” night at one of the other clubs. Reason being, interesting people, great music, fun time and most of all NO FIGHTS. It never bothered me or anyone I was with if anyone thought we were gay. If asked, we simply said we weren’t and that was it. Hell, one time I was at an “alternative” night with a buddy and we got free drinks all night because the bartender thought my buddy was cute. I even gave my buddy shit, wanting to know what made him cuter than me and the bartender thought it was funny because we were having a “lovers quarrel”. All these people getting offended with labels is stupid. If you know who you are as a person and you’re comfortable with who you are, then why worry about what other people say or think of you. If it’s truly offensive what ever happened to the old “Sticks and Stones” saying?